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Indian Woman Shares Reasons For Moving Back To Kerala From Dubai: 'It Was About Timing'

Indian Woman Shares Reasons For Moving Back To Kerala From Dubai: 'It Was About Timing'
An Indian woman explains her family's decision to move back to Kerala from Dubai.

Highlights

  1. Leeba Subin moved from Dubai to Kerala seeking mental peace and better timing in life
  2. Family visa and rent renewal in UAE prompted the decision to reassess living situation
  3. Kerala's international school proximity reduced child's daily commute from 90 minutes to 10

An Indian woman who recently moved back to Kerala from Dubai with her family has gone viral on social media for enlisting the reasons behind the decision. In an Instagram video, Leeba Subin explained the rationale, stating that it was not an 'impulsive' decision and more about 'mental peace'. 

"This was not an impulsive decision. It was about timing, alignment, and mental peace," Subin said, adding that the decision was fast-tracked when the family's visa renewal coincided with house rent renewal in the UAE.

"That pause forced us to look at everything calmly, practically, and honestly together as a family, and especially as partners," she explained.

Subin said the proximity of an international school in Kerala also influenced the family's decision to shift bases. While the school in Kerala is only 10-minutes away, her child had to leave home at 6 am and travel nearly 90 minutes each day in Dubai.

She highlighted that living in her own home in Kerala eliminated the pressure about rent in Dubai. Living within the community also revived her old social interactions, which was not the case in Dubai.

“Today, we are in a no-debt, no-EMI situation. That mental freedom mattered more than we realised at the time,” she said.

"What worked for us may not exactly work for you; however, one can use the framework for anything that you want to work on," Subin captioned the accompanying video.

"If you are a single parent, talk to your children. If you are a young couple with no kids, talk to your spouse. If you are a family of husband, wife, and children, talk to everyone in your family. In every situation, communication and open joint discussion is key," she added.

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'Well Said'

As of the last update, the video had garnered over 162,000 views and hundreds of comments as the majorityof social media users agreed with Subin's assessment.

"Love it when you said being with parents is a privilege," said one user, while another added: "Well said. We are also thinking the same. Waiting to finish our debt."

A third commented: "Shocking or the best part, as one may take, that is, being an Indian woman, you are happy with your decision. Generally, once Indian women move out of India to any country irrespectively they don't like or want to go back. Good luck and happy times ahead to you guys!"

A fourth said: "I cannot agree with you more on the last line #sometimes the decision is not about where life looks better, but where it feels better."

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About The Campaign

NDTV in partnership with UBER is launching a sustained campaign 'Roshan Dilli'  to try and raise safety standards in India's capital, New Delhi.

Our focus is to try and improve lighting in public spaces in the city. Lighting is a key factor in shaping women's perceptions of safety

The initiative will provide a platform for all stakeholders to discuss our goal of improving safety standards, to start a conversation about safety of women in the country

It will also highlight various interventions and solutions that help to make women safe and put the spotlight on what more can be done.

The campaign will accentuate the need for Safety to be a shared responsibility

The need for gender sensitization and how law enforcement and civil society through checks and education can try and make women safer

We hope you will join us and help make New Delhi a safer city for women.

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